Finding That Spark In Your Ex

I can’t stop thinking about him… I think I made a mistake, I want him back.”

If you have made this remark sometime in the present then you have realized that there’s more to the relationship you had with your ex and you are prepared to go the extra mile to preserve what you had with him. This or course will come with a lot of self evaluation, memories of the past and an assessment of how much damage was done emotionally and otherwise in order to figure out the best way to go about your new resolve.

In order to make amends and get your ex-boyfriend back, regardless of how much devastation the split up may have caused, it would be necessary to keep communications open. Closed communication would create a vacuum leading to unbridgeable distance between the two parties especially when other people get involved.  An open communication and ease of accessibility to your ex enables you to constantly revisit the issues that led to the break-up in the first place. This also allows for a speedy resolution. An open communication can enable him let go of barriers and negative vibes that have built up with time. The best step on how to get your ex boyfriend back is to discuss past memories.

During the course of the relationship there must have been really great times, memorable times. Tapping into that pool of knowledge and reminiscing about the fun you have had together is a great way of showing him that you really value his presence and appreciate all the time spent with him. This would surely trigger positive vibes and emotions.

The strength of our relationships is firmly built on memories, once these memories are activated emotions become accessible. This is a sure way of getting your ex boyfriend back.

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